Sasha writes:
"That's me in the green LATS and my friend MDCaster
in the blue LLC. That was the first time I casted him, not too bad. I
wanted you to have these first because I've used your site quite a bit in
the last few months. It was such a relief to find out that I'm not the only
one who loves casts. I've posted on the message board and have met lots of
new friends, a few of them in person.
So this is my little effort to give something back to the community. Thanx
ever so much for bringing me happiness."
"I've spent the weekend trying to figure out what it is about casts that
appeals to me and I'm no further along understanding it now, than I was
before! I do know that there are two different feelings about casts, that
is:
1) the feeling I get when I see a man in a cast, which is I guess the
same as it is for you guys seeing a woman in a cast. I want to help that
man and take care of him. Do the small things that would help him overcome
his difficulty due to the cast. I also have the urge to touch the cast, as
well as to touch the area of his body (arm/leg) above or below the cast.
There is something very appealling about a big strong man, temporarily
unable to do normal things and needing my help. Maybe it's the
mothering/nurturing thing, I guess.
The second situation is totally
different. This is where I'm wearing the cast. When I look at pix of women
in casts, I think, "I want that to be me". I am normally a very
independant person. People who know me well would say that I'm extremely
independant. I've been a single mother for 16 yrs now with no help from
family/exhusband. During that time I've gone from working in fast food to
earning a BS in Engineering and graduating Magna Cum Laude, which translates
into "pretty damn good"!
Anyway, when I'm casted, I like for my partner to take care of me. Whether
that means tying my shoes, brushing my hair, holding a door or whatever. I
love the individual attention that a man gives me when I'm casted. I'm
dependant on him for the simple things, getting me a coke, rubbing my back.
I don't expect these things in my "normal life" and would be very surprised
and suspicious it they happened! But being casted is fantasy time. I have
my very own Prince Charming. And lucky me, the partners that I've had so
far have lived up to and sometimes exceeded my expectations.
I don't know if these feelings apply to everyone, but they are truly mine.
And I've had them for a long time! Like you I was a child when I first
noticed casts and wondered why no one else wanted one like I did!!
Regards,
Sasha
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